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I’m deeply honored you would consider me for your event.

When you ask me to speak at your event, you will get a passionate advocate who invests the effort required to make your event a success.

Book Carrie

As a speaker for 35 years and a former event planner myself, I care about helping you make your event successful. I’ve spoken to audiences all over the country and in venues as diverse as state legislatures, conferences, youth events, women’s retreats, universities, schools, medical conferences, churches, TV, radio and even men’s events. I deeply respect how God designed men and love to encourage them from a woman’s perspective.

My passion is communicating relationship truth with grace to help people of all ages live in agreement with their divine design.

I’ve listed several popular topics below and will work with you to design a specific message to fit your event when requested.

My favorite part of the conference was listening to the wisdom from Carrie Abbott. She’s a remarkable and truly gifted speaker.

Carrie does a wonderful job understanding the current cultural issues facing us today and speaking biblical truth…I am so thankful for the work of The Legacy Institute.

Carrie's message was life-changing for my daughter, and that was her exact quote. 'Mom, all those things you’ve been saying really clicked. I will spread this message to everyone!'

My friend was blown away by the differences in design between men and women. She had never heard anything like that before.

This was a beautiful time for the generations to come together.I attended with my 68 year old mom and 16 year old daughter.

This conference made me think of a lot of things, and I’ve already made some changes in my life to put God at the center. No more idols!

True Beauty more than exceeded my expectations.I was not expecting the deep level of teaching…I will cherish the memories as Saturday was my 18th birthday.I can’t think of any other way I would’ve liked to spend my day!

It was an absolute honour to have Carrie come speak to us. Since hearing her I want to stand for truth more, without compromise and share it with others when I get the chance!

I really enjoyed having the opportunity to listen to Carrie Abbott speak, particularly about the parameters of godly relationships and the differences between how God created men and women. I also learned so much about how to have calm conversations with those who may not have the same worldview as I do. I hope to have the opportunity to go to another conference of hers in the future!

Carrie’s Work

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Carrie’s Bio

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Carrie’s Curriculum Vitae

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Audio Samples

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Video Samples

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Speaking Topics

Adults & Parents

Male and Female By Design – This is Carrie’s classic message from Genesis with fresh insights on why God created people, male, female, marriage, children and family is incredibly popular. This divine prescription for people can improve everyone’s relationships and is the foundation for understanding sexual integrity. This message can be delivered in 45-60 minutes, or expanded to 4-5 hours for retreats or conferences.

Male and Female Design Differences – This illuminating message reveals more specifics of the design features of men and women and the power and purpose behind the design. God’s intent for living with sexual integrity is also defined. 45-60 minutes

Marriage – A Divine Idea – This inspiring and enlightening message reveals the mystery of God’s plan for marriage in Genesis and the foundations necessary in a relationship to have a healthy, lasting marriage. lt also covers cohabitation and other counterfeits. 45-60 minutes

Emotional Intimacy – This important message reveals the importance and meaning of intimacy and how it is developed in relationships at five different levels. This practical and encouraging session helps students have healthy boundaries and build strong friendships and relationships that last a lifetime. 45-60 minutes

The Importance of Bonding – This message illuminates the importance of bonding in human relationships and reveals the stages of physical bonding observed in every culture. This message helps people understand why physical bonding is so powerful, the brain chemicals involved and how to set healthy boundaries for successful relationships. 45-60 minutes

Homosexuality and Same Sex Marriage – This message begins with God’s intent for male and female relationships and marriage beginning with the creation account in Genesis. Then, a review of Romans and other scripture along with brain science, social science data and other resources are woven into the picture to help reveal why God’s original prescription for human relationships is best, and ways for people to understand how to lovingly approach these complex issues. 2-3 hours

The Power of Being Female – This message for young ladies and women illuminates God’s original intent for creating women, the power and true beauty of their design and their abilities to expand the Kingdom through being female! Very inspiring and encouraging. 45-60 minutes

Modesty, It’s Not Just About Clothes! – This encouraging and enlightening look at modesty helps unravel the truth about humility and the grace and power that happens in our lives when we understand how to “put on humility”. This message encourages women and men to reveal truth with their bodies and in doing so expand Gods Kingdom and their influence. 45-60 minutes

The Real War on Women – This message uncovers Gods plan for women, and the lies and cultural trends that actually keep women from being all they were meant to be. This includes some enlightening facts about the female fertility, brain design and encourages all women to live in agreement with their unique design, purpose and power. 1 – 2 hours

The Power of the Spoken Word – This powerful message reveals how God spoke all things in to being, then created men and women in His image, with an ability to speak life and death with their tongues! This message brings a clarity to our understanding of our design and our kingdom purpose and how we can literally affect all of our relationships and other people through this amazing power! 45-60 minutes

The Power of Being A Real Man – This encouraging and respectful exhortation to men of all ages comes from a woman’$ unique perspective and will inspire your men to live in agreement with their unique and powerful design. Includes scripture from Genesis, brain research and other important facts causing every man listening to feel they have what it takes! 45-60 minutes

Speaking Topics

College & Students

Male and Female By Design – This foundational message introduces Gods intent for male and female relationships prescribed in Genesis and reveal how to live in agreement with that design and live with sexual integrity throughout a lifetime. 45-60 minutes

Male and Female Design Differences – This illuminating message reveals more specifics of the design features of men and women and the power and purpose behind the design. God’s intent for living with sexual integrity is also defined. 45-60 minutes

Marriage – A Divine Idea – This inspiring and enlightening message reveals the marriage in Genesis and the foundations necessary healthy, lasting marriage. It also covers cohabitation. 45-60 minutes

Emotional Intimacy – This important message reveals the importance and meaning of intimacy and how it is developed in relationships at five different levels. This practical and encouraging session helps students have healthy boundaries and build strong friendships and relationships that last a lifetime. 45-60 minutes

The Importance of Bonding – This message illuminates the importance of bonding in human relationships and reveals the stages of physical bonding observed in every culture. This message helps people understand why physical bonding is so powerful, the brain chemicals involved and how to set healthy boundaries for successful relationships. 45-60 minutes

Homosexuality and Same Sex Marriage – This message begins with God’s intent for male and female relationships and marriage beginning with the creation account in Genesis. Then, a review of Romans and other scripture along with brain science, social science data and other resources are woven into the picture to help reveal why God’s original prescription for human relationships is best, and ways for people to understand how to lovingly approach these complex issues. 2-3 hours

The Power of Being Female – This message for young ladies and women illuminates God’s original intent for creating women, the power and true beauty of their design and their abilities to expand the Kingdom through being female! Very inspiring and encouraging. 45-60 minutes

Modesty, It’s Not Just About Clothes! – This encouraging and enlightening look at modesty helps unravel the truth about humility and the grace and power that happens in our lives when we understand how to “put on humility”. This message encourages women and men to reveal truth with their bodies and in doing so expand Gods Kingdom and their influence. 45-60 minutes

The Real War on Women – This message uncovers Gods plan for women, and the lies and cultural trends that actually keep women from being all they were meant to be. This includes some enlightening facts about the female fertility, brain design and encourages all women to live in agreement with their unique design, purpose and power. 1-2 hours

The Power of the Spoken Word – This powerful message reveals how God spoke all things in to being, then created men and women in His image, with an ability to speak life and death with their tongues! This message brings a clarity to our understanding of our design and our kingdom purpose and how we can literally affect all of our relationships and other people through this amazing power! 45-60 minutes

The Power of Being A Real Man – This encouraging and respectful exhortation to men of all ages comes from a woman’s unique perspective and will inspire your men to live in agreement with their unique and powerful design. Includes scripture from Genesis, brain research and other important facts causing every man listening to feel they have what it takes! 45-60 minutes

Speaking Topics

Senior High

Living with Sexual Integrity – This inspiring message includes God’s intentional design for male and female relationships from Genesis and the definition and application of sexual integrity using all five aspects including: physical, intellectual, emotional, social and spiritual. 45-60 minutes

Male and Female Differences – This fast paced, fun interactive session includes scripture from Genesis and Gods intent for creating male and female relationships. This session helps students value each other as well as their own unique and powerful design. 45-60 minutes

Intimacy Levels – This enlightening message reveals the five different levels of intimacy and the role each one plays in developing healthy relationships. This popular talk takes shows students how to form and maintain relationships, helps them develop boundaries and what commitment at each level requires. 45-60 minutes

Bonding – Physical bonding is observed in every culture and learn in this message students will the importance of each stage of bonding and how brain chemicals are a component to bonding. Students also see where and why they should set boundaries for physical touch, and how to start over if they have gone too far. 45-60 minutes

Speaking Topics

Junior High

Male and Female Differences – This fast paced, fun interactive session includes scripture from Genesis and Gods intent for creating male and female relationships. This session helps students value each other as well as their own unique and powerful design. 45-60 minutes

Living with Sexual Integrity – This inspiring message includes God’s intentional design for male and female relationships from Genesis and the definition and application of sexual integrity using all five aspects including: physical, intellectual, emotional, social and spiritual. 45-60 minutes